If you have ever been in a relationship then you should already know that there are some certain ways to keep a woman happy. You might not like to do them all but for a happy home you might want to keep your lady happy and I am here to help with some simple relationship advice for men.

1. I am going to start with probably the simplest step and that is ‘be yourself’: The problem with most men is that they pretend to be who their not, in their mind they have already defeated themselves because they believe they aren’t good enough to have a sexy beautiful woman interested in them. good looksis a ad reality and the worst part is, it rubs off on the woman. If I were to ask a hundred men what a woman was more attracted to, at last 60% of them would say good looks but that is not true. Women are more attracted to confidence in a man than his looks. Haven’t you seen a couple walk by you and you look at the man then woman on his side and you realize that he is ugly but she is extremely beauiful, then you start woondering how he was able to get her. It’s all in the confidence, if you believe you’re worth it, she will believe that you are too.
2. Learn to do the small things: Now that means learning to do things like taking her car in for oil changes or buying her a bag of her favorite M&M’s once in a while. One of the mistakes men make is we think in terms of “one grand gesture” but in realty relationships are madeup on the backbone of little gestures.
3. The third relationship advice is simple: show her that you appreciate her. Never take her for granted, ever opportunity that you have should be a chance to prove to her that you love and appreciate her.
4. This one is a cardinal sin in the eye of most women: Never stare at another woman while you’re with her. I am still surprised that most men continually do this. you don’t want to be the man who is looking at another woman while with yours. The reason is simple because most women believe that you are comparing them to the woman or women you are looking at. Most men say “the day I stop looking is the day I die” but unfortunately your girlfriend or wife does not see it that way in stead they see it as a disrespect on your part. Women are naturally wired to be monogamous in relationships, so you looking signals them as a sign of upcoming betrayal. It does not matter what she tells you, even if she says “I am alright with it” , she really isn’t. No matter how cool or tough a woman is, she is still looking for one thing and that’s a man with whom she can have a family and raise children with, it’s hardwired into her system, she might pretend or ignore it for a while but it will become evident soon enough. That’s the design of God. So whenever she is around, stop looking at other women, keep your ogling to a minimum.
5. Always try to make her Laugh: This is very important because without it, your relationship will probably wither and die. If you ask men what they want in a woman, at the top of the list would be ‘good looks’ but if you ask a woman what she wants in a man at the top of her list would be ‘a good sense of humor’. Women are attracted to confidence and with good confidence comes humor, if you truly want the raltionship to be a lasting one, then make sure you include humor and keep her smiling.
6. Seek common interest: In relationships you have to learn to seek common interest, it is always fun if both of you are interested in similar activities but somethimes that won’t always be the case, so as a man what you must do is get yourself interested in whatever she is passionat about. For example, you might not be too keen on watching foreign movies but if that is what she likes then you must develop an appreciation and interest for it. This will seperate you from the other guys she has known and she will see you as both caring and loving. Do this and I promise your relationship will blossom.
7. Don’t top looking good: Another mistakes most men make comes in the form of ‘letting go’. After they went through all the work of getting this girl who now is head over heels in love with them, then they stop trying. Instead of taking care of themselves, they will spend time playing video games or slobbing on the couch, the nice cologne is kept for only special occasions, they no longer groom themselves, they wear ridiculous outfits and all this happens because they believe they don’t try any more because they now have her. Women love men that seem committed to making it last, and your lack of attempt only shows her that you are not as commited as she is and you might be taking her for granted. So, the solution is simple, no matter how long you have been in a relationship, make sure you still try or else you will endup messing up your relationship.
8. Show her that you can get along with her friends and family: Don’t try to keep her away from her friends or family, you are a part of her life but not the only part of her life. So make sure you try your best to get along with her friends and family, even if they don’t like you for whatever reason, she will be impressed by it. Women usually rely on their family and friends to validate their relationship choices, so make an effort to impress them.
9. Be very considerate of how she feels: For those of us that are married, we can testify to the fact that sometimes the wife might seem less stable, one minute she’s happy, the next she’s mad at you, part of this can be blamed on hormones. And that’s why as a guy you must be sensitive to her moods, if you are able to do this, you will avoid a lot of fights.
10. Be Open to new things. This is the last relationship advice on this list. If you have been in a relationship for awhile, things are probably routine by now, all the excitement that began at the beginning of the relationship have now become no more than routine. When your relationship starts feeling like a routine, then you have to shake things up, do something different, break the circle of routine that can end up damaging your relationship. This will strengthen your relationship and it will be romantic (women love romance).

These were 10 simple tips to keep your relationship fresh. None of these tips are complicated, they can be done if you truly want a relationship that feels new and exciting everyday. All these tips are contained in the book by T’Dub’ Jackson called “The Magic of Making Up“. There are some more tips in there that will blow your mind.

And i would like to use this opportunity to thank  T ‘Dub’ for helping me out when I needed help the most and teaching me the ways to keep a woman happy. So check out “The Magic of Making Up” today for yourself and let me know what you think of it.

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“My Ex Says He Wants More Space – How Do I Get Him Back” is the question of the hour, so let me help you with an answer. It sucks when you think that you’re in the greatest relationship ever, and then out of the blue your boyfriend says “I want more space”. That can make you question everything because most times it was something you didn’t see coming.

Ps. If you are not reading this because you hope to find a non-challenging answer to “my ex says he wants more space, how do I get him back”, then feel free to stop reading right now and go ahead and do something else with your time but if you really want the raw truth, then read on.

So before I tell you the ways to fix it, lets talk about why your boyfriend might like he needs some space to begin with. There are a couple of reasons that immediately spring to mind, for example; he might be insecure, experiencing some family issues, he might just be afraid of commitment (a lot of guys fall in this category), or you might be overly controlling. There are a lot more reasons but I want to make this as short as possible and straight to the point, so I’ll stop here.

How To Fix it:

There is no need to make a fool out of yorself by crying over him, even though you feel the urge to because you are still in love with him. Instead the best course of action is to play a little hard to get, don’t cry, make him understand that it’s his loss and not yours. He will start doubting his decision.

Then if you start seeing that he still has some feeling for you, then all you have to do is systematically strike up a simple conversation, don’t make it too long. Keep it to a minimum and you will be able to avoid a lot of heartache and drama. If both of you are texting, make sure it’s short messages, online conversations when you are on your way out of the house (so that you always end the conversation with something like “hey I have to go, ttyl”, when you talk on the phone make sure it’s brief. All these helps you in helping him realize that he wants to be a part of your life while also giving him the space he wanted.

If you do everything I am telling you to do, he will eventually begin to show his interest in you again and when that time comes then you can start remincing with him. But it’s important that you only put the focus on the great parts of your relationship, or else he might start withdrawing again. It’s very important that you keep the focus on the good parts of your relationship.

If you do the following and he is still not responding to you, then you have to understand that either he really needs the space he asked you for or he might not be interested in you anymore. But if he seems a little more interested, then you have to gradually keep advancing on him to restart your relationship. Keyword (gradually)

If you find that your ex boyfriend is actually showing you that he wants to rekindle the relationship, then let him know that you still care to save the relationship, open you heart to him but like I always say avoid looking needy and desperate in the process. If you find out that he is not ready to rekindle the relationship, then back off, don’t try to force him and don’t confess anything. Let it happen naturally.

These are simple steps for getting your ex back. Like I always say these are not my ideas, they belong to T ‘Dub’ Jackson, he has been helping people win back their ex for years now and I am happy to call him my friend. Make sure you check out his step by step plan called “The Magic Of Making Up“.

Until next time Remember, there is nothing as precious as love, so cherish it.

Pete Winston

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If you have lost your boyfriend and you find yourself asking “How Do I Get My Ex Back When He Has Moved On?” then I am here to help. Don’t keep crying and feeling sorry for yourself just because your ex is gone because not everything that is lost today is lost forever. So I will give you some simple tips to help you in getting back with your ex even though he appears to have moved on to another relationship.

1 – The very very first step to accomplishing this goal is discovering a way to make him believe that he still wants you. This is pretty easy to do unless if he truly does not want to be associated with you at all. And in that case he will avoid you like you’re the plague and if that’s the case, then there are also some simple options you can use.

2 – Be a good friend without facilitating drama. Some ladies underestimate the power of this step and because of that they never get to the point where he realizes that he wants them back. Be his friend without trying to break up his current relationship (If you try to break it up, chances are, it will backfire on you). Show him that you understand him and you can joke with him while having a true and healthy friendship. If you can do this, after the stree and drama of the breakup has subsided, he might start realizing hoe much you mean to him and that will make him want you more.

3 – When talking to your ex, make sure you are kind and sweet to him mixed with a tiny bit of attitude. The trick is getting him to want you while simultaneously making him feel that he can’t have you yet. I am not an advocate for playing games with people’s heads but this techique is important because it makes you seem hard to get and guys are more interested in things that are hard to get.

4 – Although I said you should play hard to get, you would also want him to realize that you are available. You should feel free to hang out and flirt with your other friends because it ill create some jealousy in him but it is extremely important that ou do not over do it, you have to make sure it is clear to him that you are still available. If he believes you’ve been taken he might not bother in pursuing his feelings for you.

5 – Desperation equals wasted opportunity. Avoid coming off as deperate because if you were to act desperately towards him, he will losee all respect for you. You should play things cool, let him understand that you’re ok with the breakup and are ready to move on. Desperation never leads to anything good, if you come off as desperate you will prolly never get him back.

6 – Seduction Tip. If you notice or feel that he is looking at you, then look at him from the corner of your eyes in a sidelong glance. This mysterious look will simply tell him “I know you want me but you can’t have me yet”.

7 – Remind him casually of some good times you both had together. These accomplishes one important thing and that is, it helps him in remembering how great both of you were together. Avoid all the bad memories because it won’t do any good, and it will only cause harm.

These are simply the first steps in getting back with your ex. I must confess these were not my ideas, I simply listened to what T ‘Dub’ Jackson teaches in his step by step plan called “The Magic of Making Up” and it has worked magic.

Till next time remember Love is the most important thing in this world, so cherish it.

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How Can I Tell If My Ex Wants To Get Back Together

If you find that you’re asking “does my ex want to get back together with me”, then I am here to help you sought it all out. The first sign to look for is whether or not your ex tries to flirt with you, if you notice that he/she seems interested in spending more time with you, then you might have a shot at reconciliation but don’t rush it.

Although those could be good signs pointing to the fact that your ex is still interested in rekindling your relationship, you must be careful not to rush into anything because it will backfire. the very best thing to do would be to play hard to get (moderately), and the reasoning behind it is that your ex will respond more to you playing a little bit hard to get than if you foolishly rush into trying to rekindle the relationship. The problem with rushing, is the fact that if you choose to rush into the relationship, you will findout that your ex will stating backing off again. Playing hard to get actually makes them want you more. Haven’t you heard this adage “People want what they cannot have”.

There is a natural feeling that comes after a break up and that is ‘missing what you once had’, this feeling affects both of the ex’s and it makes you want to get back together with them. The longer the relationship, the better, because the longer you are with someone, the more you will miss them when they are gone. And this is true for our ex too, he/she will miss you because as humans the things that keeps us connected are our memories and he/she will not easily forget the good times both of you had and that will keep them connected with you, no matter how hard they try to stop it. And with that also comes the memories and emotions of the things they regret. If you’re still wondering “How can I tell if my ex wants to get back together” you might be surprised to know that your ex is probably thinking about the same thing.

But I must give you a little warning, there are some ex’s who after a breakup will start showing some interest and you will begin to believe that they want to get back together but it’s all a game to them. They could realize that you are still in love with them so they would use it to their advantage to get some attention from you but without the intention to ever rekindle the relationship. So my advice is, take your time and vet your ex’s reasons for giving you attention, and if you findout that it is not genuine then please don’t waste your time, move on. I say this because some ex’s can be vengeful and they would want to play you back for some perceieved wrong you had done to them and that is why rushing into anyhing with your ex is always a bad idea. Take your time and findout what’s the purpose for the attention they are giving you is for.

And don’t worry about feeling weird about it. You are not the only one asking “how can I tell if my ex wants to get back together”, you must vet the situation before acting on it. Don’t rush into anything, the very best option if you think that your ex wants you back is to play hard to get because it will prevent your heart from being broken again if your ex was never really serious about it.

Sometimes a relationship can end abruptly and the reaction of either the guy or girl, can be one of disbelieve because they aren’t sure if the relationship has actully ended or is just taking a break. This is particularly significnt when the reltionship is still in it’s infancy stage. Most men cannot simply come to terms with the fact that they are now alone because their once beloved girlfriend has decided to walk away from the relationship, and they end up hoping that it’s just a dream and when they wake up in the morning, everything will be alright and she’ll be there. So if you find that you are one of those men saying “I want to get back together with my ex girlfriend”, then listen up because we are about to create a plan which will achieve just that.

If you are serious in rekindling your relationship, then there are some simple steps you must take to avchieve it. And these are some tips to help you through the process.

• Everyone gets a second chance, so don’t start believing that saving your relationship is impossible. But before we continue, you have to be honest with yourself and ask some importnt questions; Are you still really inlove with her? Do you actually need her back? And If you do, Why? Are you wanting her back because you refuse to believe any woman can dump you, or maybe becuse you don’t want to be lonely? Now, I will give you one simple warning, if your reasons for wanting her back is not because of love, then stop reading this article right now, any other reason other than love is dangerous and you are better off moving on. Don’t waste your time and hers too.
• If you’re really wanting to get back with your ex, then I must advise you, that although it is normal to feel a sense of desperation when you think about her, you must control yourself and your emotions. You should never appear desperate to her. If you feel that it’s impossible to control yourself, then make sure you talk to your family and friends, and tell them how you feel, cry if you want to, but she can never know. You must do your crying when she isn’t there, never beg or cry in the presence of your ex, and more importntl, don’t start trying to stalk her, she is not your property. If you can follow this steps, I promise you, there is a better chance of her coming back to you.
• Control yourself and feelings, you must let go of self pity and only then can you try to mend things with your ex. Appearing needy or desperate will only make her avoid you more than she already does. Remember control yourself (very important).
• You have to keep communication lines open with the ex girlfriend. She might have been the one who ended the relationship, but you have to provide her with a sense of open communication, that you want to still be a friend and you’re mature enough to be civil. Initiating conversations does not hve to become your defacto job, but you should willingly sy hello once in awhile and have an occassional conversation with her, you should casually keep in touch.
• The most important thing, is, you have to analyze what exactly went wrong during the relationship. There was a problem that ended the relationship, and you should find out what that problem was and that will help you significantly in reconciling with your ex. Every arguement has a cause, find out what those causes were, fix them and my friend you will be on your way to getting your ex girlfriend back.

For a complete step by step guide to getting back your ex girlfriend, make sure you use the Magic of Making up guide.

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